All-Inclusive Resort Help

We are planning a late October/early November Honeymoon for a tropical destination. We are aware it’s hurricane season so we are thinking Aruba, Bonaire, Curaçao, St Lucia, Grenada, Barbados, maybe pacific side of Mexico.

We are searching for an all-inclusive that has a lot of activities is more upscale and preferable adults only. We’d really like a nice beach as that’s where we will likely spend most of our time.

Budget all in flights/hotel/excursions is $10k ideally less.

Should we do a Sandals or something similar? Which properties are nicest?

Thanks!