Finding the Right Words, Any Advice for a Nervous Best Man?

I hope you’re all doing great! So, I’m super excited (and a little nervous) because I’ve been given the honor of being the best man at my buddy’s wedding next month. I really want to nail the speech, something that’s both funny and heartfelt, but honestly, I’m feeling a bit lost on how to kick things off.

Also, the groom is in the thick of writing his vows, and he’s feeling a bit swamped. He really wants them to reflect who he is and his love for his partner, but finding the right words has been a challenge.

I stumbled across weddingwriter which seems like it could have some solid advice on crafting speeches and vows. Has anyone had a chance to check it out?

I’d love to hear any stories, tips, or ideas you’ve got. Even a little encouragement would mean a lot! Thanks in advance for your help!