Sandals and All Inclusives – Need your detailed experiences!

Wedding is April 2020 and we are headed out to the honeymoon afterwards. We have done a deep dive into Sandals, Secrets, Rui, and other all inclusive resorts reviews. I’m reading a ton of mixed reviews. We are looking at a budget of ~$6.5k. I am concerned about Sandals and not having the butler service. I would love to know experiences with the club level rooms and if you think a butler is absolutely worth it. Also if there are experiences with Secrets Papagayo Costa Rica….. please help!

We care about – Good scuba – Beautiful beaches – Good rooms – Good service – Quality food – plus if there is some fun party scenes