Where should we go?

My fiance and I will be honeymooning next year, we are thinking in October, and we cannot figure out where to go!

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We are traveling from MN so places like Fiji, New Zealand, Maldives and such are a 2 day travel commitment (4 days there and back). It isnt completely off the table, but I guess I would hate to spend 4 of my honeymoon days traveling. What we are looking for is a resort somewhere tropical that is of a decent size, and where the atmosphere can be crazy or super zen, because on the one hand we really will want to relax and just take it all in at times. But at other times we like to drink heavily and meet new people!

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Anywho, we have been to Cancun for the past three winters, this is the resort we stayed at the last two times http://www.oasissens.com/

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I keep comparing everything to this resort, which is silly because it really isnt THAT grand.

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What we are looking for:

Hot

Ocean

All Inclusive

Swim-up bars (at least 2)

Multiple restaurants/places to eat. Grand oasis sens had many options but there were time constraints for many and it was hard to get in at times.

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Ideally a place with a view of mountains or something, anything not flat, but that's not a deal breaker either.

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We like to meet other people while on vacation, so we want the resort to be big enough to meet lots of people, but small enough to have our alone time when we want it and not stick out like sore thumbs because we are 1 of like 30 couples.

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I know I am asking a lot, but if you find yourself reading this and you have nothing to do and love to do research! Please help me!!! I have been researching so much and I just cant figure it out!